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曾国藩:人生没有白走的路,每一步都算数

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有时候,我们觉得生活太累了,显然很辛苦,但却没有回报。

有时,在混乱和困境中,屈辱和挫折一个接一个地跟着。你挣扎的越多,你失去的希望就越多,灰色使人们失去前进的动力。

有时,当胜利即将到来时,这是一个由命运轻巧巧妙地制造的笑话,它被深渊击败,所有的努力都失去了。

即使你到处都看不到光,即使荆棘到处都是,即使命运被欺骗,

还请相信,

生活没有办法,每一步都很重要。

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你可以赢得比赛,一路走来。

当曾国藩是一个男孩时,他的目标很棒,他决心成为一个圣人。他们中的大多数人在年轻时都有很大的抱负,但他们的行动很难跟上。

在曾国藩决定为自己制定规则之后,从道光决定在10月的第一天恢复之日起,他每天都开始做“日间班”。所谓的日课实际上是检查你自己的日记。

曾国藩要求自己用圣徒的标准来监督他的一举一动,然后每天用一个简洁的剧本记录下来,看看哪些不符合圣徒的标准,然后反思修正。

从10月2日起,曾国藩为自己设定了一个基本的学习计划:他每天写日记,每天读10页,每天都在谈茶。这是必须完成的课程的下限。此外,他还每天阅读《易》来练习作文。

直到他去世前四天的第一天,也就是二月的第一天,他继续在日记中反思自己:

俞精神一直挥之不去。任何应该解决的问题都无法长期完成。它应该清理很长时间。如果是一座山,没有家,它已经超过30岁,官方是最好的,学校什么都没有。郑,美德是不可接受的,老板受伤了,不太好!

日记对这件事情进行了反思,他坚持了一辈子。这真的是“像一天一样的几十年”。反复和恢复是如此愚蠢的努力,以至于曾国藩的工作越来越坚持不懈。

在研究这件事的同时,曾国藩也坚持了自己的人生。繁忙的事业仍然坚持阅读和写作,即使是在军队,“你必须每天阅读几页,填写一些日记,读一个字,像往常一样终生。”

日常的反思使他越来越接近圣人的标准。每天的学习使他超过五十岁,他的思想仍然没有凝固,他仍然在不断进步。

在晚年,曾国藩总结了自己的人生经历,并说一个人的生命就像一个果实成熟的过程。别担心,你不能懈怠。后天的人类努力和培养将使树长得越来越高,它会使人慢慢成熟:“帮助,看地面,长高。”

世界上没有徒劳的努力,也没有成功的机会。不要帮助幼苗,不要急于寻求成功,你只需要一步一步地,一步一步地成功,但这只是理所当然的事。

2,事物随着心灵的变化,情境是由内心创造的,是一种挫折,也是一种动力

晚清时期,太平天国变得越来越凶悍。曾国藩被命令反叛,但军队很尴尬。曾国藩决定开辟新炉灶,建立新军队。但是,为了不引起清廷的怀疑,他还下令长沙的绿营军队和新招募的村民。一起训练。

这样,冲突就不可避免地会发生。

The green camp has always been not seriously trained, but Zeng Guofan ordered them to work hard together with the Xiang Army. The soldiers of the Xiang Army are all rural people, and they are naturally not afraid of suffering. Those green camp soldiers can be different. They are pampered all the year round and can't afford Zeng Guofan's training. In order to boycott Zeng Guofan, they pointed their finger at the struggle. Between the green camp and the township, there is often a fight.

On this day, in order to punish the Green Camp, Zeng Guofan arrested several green battalions who took the lead. Other green battalions, under the instigation of the Admiral Bao Qibao, were emotional and stayed siege of Zeng Guofan. Zeng Guofan was so scared that he quickly escaped to the residence of the governor Luo Bingzhang. This can be said to be the shameful shame of Zeng Guofan's life. He said that he was "smashing his teeth and swallowing blood", but he was not discouraged. He decided to lead the villagers to leave Changsha and go to Hengzhou.

It is precisely because of this blow that Zeng Guofan’s idea of independent training was born. The Xiang Army, known all over the world, began this time with the "insult of Changsha." At that time, Zeng Guofan had no money and no power. Without Changsha’s humiliation, Zeng Guofan could hardly overcome many difficulties and set up the Xiang Army from scratch. If there is no such Xiang army, there will be no credit for Zeng Guofan later.

Everything in life is a setback and a driving force. Things change with the heart, and the environment is created by the heart. There is no desperate situation in the world, only those who are desperate.

Some people have been indulging in pain, and some people have risen to catch up. Some people take their own wounds and give up on their own, and some people make every scar become their own medal.

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3. If things are counterproductive, please believe that there are other arrangements

Zeng Guofan worked hard for many years. Under the tremendous pressure, the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom occurred in Tianjing civil strife and rapidly declined. At this time, it happened that Zeng Guofan’s father died. Zeng Guofan also had an unhappy relationship with the Jiangxi officialdom. The emperor saw that the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom had no climate and pushed the boat to let Zeng Guofan go home. For three years, he also deprived him of his military power.

xx这当头一棒差点把曾国藩打昏。他万没料到苦战数年竟是这样一个结果。太平天国已经式微,平定指日可待,这天大的功绩就这样拱手让出,让他如何甘心。

他“得不寐之疾”,患了“怔悸之症”,卧病在床他在给郭昆焘的信中亦称:“以兴举太大,号召过多,公事私事不乏未竟之绪,生者死者犹多愧负之言。用是触绪生感不能自克,亦由心血积亏不能养肝,本末均失其宜,遂成怔悸之象。”

他开始反思自己,开始去学习黄老之学,开始懂得了上善若水,和光同尘,不为天下先的道理。心态也慢慢平复下来,努力改正以前的脾气。而命运也终究没有负他。

太平天国衰而复盛,皇帝被迫再度启用曾国藩,曾国藩得到了二次出山的机会。

再次出山的曾国藩已经磨平了他的棱角,他不再和同僚处处为难,也不再让皇帝处处难堪,反而很好地平衡了各方的关系,在不放弃原则的情况下,做出些许的妥协,最终顺利平定太平天国。

所有的故事总会有一个答案,重要的是,在最终答案到来之前,你是否耐得住性子,守得稳初心。

不必急着要生活给予你所有的答案,有时候,你要拿出耐心等等。即便你向空谷喊话,也要等一会儿,才会听见那绵长的回音。

回报不一定在付出后立即出现,只要你肯等一等,所有的回报,总在你不经意的时候,盛装莅临。

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音乐人李宗盛说:时过境迁,终于明白,人一生中每一个经历过的城市都是相通的,每一个努力过的脚印都是相连的,它一步步带我走到今天,成就今天的我

XXThere are always smart people who are always trying to find shortcuts. They are not willing to work hard step by step. The foundation is also not reliable. Just like a building, even the foundation is not well. In the event of an earthquake, it will collapse and be really smart. People who never opportunistically do not fear hardships, fear the difficulties, and never complain about fate. They have always been bit by bit, resistant to temperament, building their own tall buildings one brick and one tile.

Life has no way to go, every step counts.

Don't worry about tomorrow, work hard to live in the moment, arrange your life in every time, live up to the years, and keep going. Walk through the cold winter, walk into the spring, walk and walk, the flowers will open.

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